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In what order does a wedding go?


A wedding is one of the most important events in a couple’s life and requires a lot of preparation. One of the most important things to consider when planning a wedding is the order of events. Knowing the order of a wedding ceremony can help to ensure that everything runs smoothly and that the ceremony is a success.

The Processional

The first part of the ceremony is the processional. The processional is when the wedding party enters the ceremony space. The order of the processional is as follows:

– The officiant, minister or priest
– The groom and his best man
– The groomsmen
– The bridesmaids
– The maid/matron of honor
– The flower girl
– The ring bearer
– The bride and her father

It is important to note that the processional order can vary depending on the couple’s preference and cultural or religious traditions. The processional music is usually chosen by the couple and can range from classical to contemporary music.

The Service

Once the wedding party has entered the ceremony space, the service begins. The standard order of the service is as follows:

– The officiant welcomes the guests and introduces the ceremony
– The couple exchanges vows
– The couple exchanges rings
– The officiant pronounces the couple as husband and wife
– The couple has their first kiss as a married couple
– The couple exits the ceremony space, followed by the wedding party

Again, the order of the service can vary depending on the couple’s preference and cultural or religious traditions. For example, in a Jewish ceremony, the couple may sign the Ketubah, a marriage contract, and in a Hindu ceremony, there may be a fire ceremony.

The Recessional

The recessional is the end of the wedding ceremony and includes the exit of the newly married couple and the wedding party. The order of the recessional is as follows:

– The newly married couple exits the ceremony space
– The maid/matron of honor and best man exit
– The bridesmaids and groomsmen exit

It is important to note that the order of the recessional can vary depending on the couple’s preference and cultural or religious traditions.

Final Thoughts

A wedding is a special event that requires a lot of planning and preparation. Knowing the proper order of events for a wedding can help to ensure that everything runs smoothly and that the ceremony is a success. The processional, service, and recessional are the three main parts of a wedding ceremony. Remember to customize the order of events to your liking and to have fun on your special day. Congratulations to the newlyweds!